When love is not enough.

When love is not enough.

1.  Words and actions is not matching

Love is not enough when the words and actions is not matching. Love is not what is says,  love is what It does. Do not buy into any love that does not have a matching action. Love is action. Love is in the doing.

2. When the love has not birthed friendship

Love is not enough, when the love has not birthed friendship.  Your butterflies in your stomach will not sustain your relationship. When there is no friendship, relationships becomes a burden.

3. When the love lack honors

Love is not enough, when the love lack honors. Have a measure of honor for the people you love, otherwise you will begin to take them for granted. That you are dating someone that is older than you does not mean you should disrespect the person. Honor his words through your actions. Honor what he says.

4. When your love is not spiritual

Love is not enough, when your love is not spiritual..pay more attention on content. Dating someone that does not go to church is not healthy on the long run. Build your love on a solid foundation which is God's love and his word. The prayer life of your partner should continue to grow consistently.

5.When they see you as a property not  a person. 

Love is not enough, when they see you as a property not  a person. If you are the only one giving in that relationship, you have overgrown it.Marriage is not an achievement. There should be a divine purpose for your life as a christian. You are more than a property in a relationship.

6.  When it totally excludes the love of Christ

Love is not enough when it totally excludes the love of Christ.When the love of God does not exit in a relationship, the relationship will tend to collapse on a long-run. You and your partner should have plans on how you want to fulfill God's plan for your life.

7. When your kind of love only love my strength

Love is not enough is when your kind of love only love their strength..Love your partner genuinely, whether he or she makes a mistake or not. And always correct with love.